QUESTION:
how to stop snoring?
is there any possible way to stop snoring in 3 days??? by thursday? i procrastinate alot

• ANSWER:
  Yes, you can have your uvula (the thingie that hangs down in the back of your throat) lasered off and you will stop snoring immediately. But you will have the 100 percent worst sore throat you can imagine for about two weeks. The back of your throat literally gets charred and you smell like smoke – no kidding.

  I believe the procedure is called a Laser Assisted Palatouvulectomy.

QUESTION:
Are there nose strips or anything to stop snoring?
I have to share a room with my mom when we go to the islands on vacation for 7 days. At home her snores can be heard through the house(on all 3 levels) So I cannot imagine what it will be like to sleep in the same room. Is there anything that cures snoring? I love my mom and everything but somethings gotta give. Thanks for all the help.

• ANSWER:
  There are lots of reasons why people snore–none of which can be cured quickly.
  many people have ‘sleep apnea’ and need to use a compressed forced breathing machine (called a C-Pap or Bi-Pap).
  She may or may not have this.
  people who are overweight tend to snore more.
  people who sleep on their backs, also tend to snore more.
  Anyway–for the trip, i suggest your mom sleep on 2-3 pillows, to prop her up.
  Also you can buy her “Breathe Right” nasal strips, which help keep her nasal airways open, so she breathes through her nose while sleeping.
  For you–buy some ear plugs. I use them all the time- I have the soft, squishy kind, and they work great.
  best wishes to you both and have a nice trip!

QUESTION:
How do u stop sum1 from snoring but they r already sleeping?
YO peeps i like really could use ur help on this we r like up at 3 in the morning cuz this one gurl wont stop snoring at my b day party!

• ANSWER:
  Homeopathic treatment to stop snoring :-
  1.BACILLINUM 200C
  2.BARYTA CARB 200C
  Three drops each in a sip of water twice a week.
  Followed by :-
  1. NATRIUM MUR 6X
  2. KALI MUR 6X
  3. CALC FLOUR 6X
  Four Tablets each four times a day every four hours.
  These will help stop snoring in any person with regular use. keep me posted about your progress.
  Take Care and God Bless you

QUESTION:
How can I stop snoring at night?
So I’m going on a vaction for 3 days in a different state with my friend and her family and her cousin (the guy i like) so her and her family and me are all gonna sleep in the same tent and i snore sometimes so what can i do to stop it? i dont wanna look stupid with those nose things or take medicine is there anything that i can do that could help me not snore cause i snore a little but alot when im reallly tired or just in a deep sleep! please help!!!!

-Love-
Ash♥

• ANSWER:
  Seriously go to the store and buy a spray called Snore Relief by Breathe Right. It works very well. You can always take the label off and say that it’s a spray vitamin or something so no one knows what you’re using. It works very well. My husband has to use it a couple of times a week so I can get to sleep.

QUESTION:
pit bull snoring how do i stop it its really annoying and i dont know!?
my 3 year old pit bull snores. loudly. its annoying and i havnt slept for almost two days now. is there some sort of a thing that you can buy to put on the dogs nose to make them snore less or something? its cute, but annoying.

• ANSWER:
  Get yourself some ear plugs

QUESTION:
Should I go to the doctor to see about snoring/sleep apnea?
I’m fifteen years old and my friends tell me I sleep really weird.. I stop snoring for like 3 minutes then I start doing this whistling thing and this goes on all night long. I have super bad sinuses so could it be sleep apnea? What can doctors do if it is sleep apnea?
Oh, and after three minutes, I gasp for air they say. My family even notices.

• ANSWER:
  Go to your doctor and see about a referral to a sleep clinic. They hook you up to a whole bunch of wires that monitor you as you sleep. Afterwards, they may suggest a c-pap machine which consists of a mask that you wear to bed and it forces oxygen into your lungs while you sleep. Also, if you quit breathing at night while you are sleeping, not good – that is what the c-pap machine is for.
  Ask your parents to schedule you an appt and go and talk to the doctor!!
  Good luck!

QUESTION:
How can I get my husband to stop snoring?
Okay, so here is the deal. Me and my husband have been married a little over 3 years. His snoring wasn’t a problem when we first got married because I was a deep sleeper. After we had our son I became a light sleeper. (I guess its a mom thing) I tried ear plugs, listening to music through my ipod all night, he tried breathe right strips, throat sprays, laying on his side, laying on his stomach. With the earplugs and music I could still hear his snoring so loudly that I couldn’t sleep. Also, the music made it hard for me to go to sleep, eventhough it was relaxing music. Laying on his side helps only a little. Laying on his stomach helps, but he says it hurts for him to lay on his stomach and ends up rolling back onto his side 10 minutes in. The throat sprays and breath right strips did absolutely nothing. Since neither one of us was getting sleep, me because of his snoring and him because I would wake him up and tell him to roll back onto his stomach, we took seperate bedrooms. We’ve had this sleeping arrangement for a little over 6 months now. However, we feel like it is damaging our marriage and want to start sleeping in the same bed again. Does anyone have some suggestions to help him stop snoring or help me sleep with his snoring or a combo of the two?

Also, I know most of you are going to ask if he is overweight and yes he is, but won’t do much to change it. I’ve already tried that to no avail. He can’t get tested at the doctors because if they discover that he has sleep apnia then he would loose his CDL’s and loose our only source of income because he has no other skills. (his words not mine) Please no comments about the weight or sleep apnia, I just need a solution right now.

Thanks so much to anyone that answers!!

• ANSWER:
  Put a pair of scissors under his pillow .. Hmm .. Don’t laugh, I read that somewhere =/

QUESTION:
How to stop my roommate from snoring!?
My roommate snores really loud,and I’m sick of it! But I don’t want to suggest nose straps. Are there any natural ways to stop her from snoring while she’s sleeping? Like some old wives tales are home remedies xP I’ve heard of turning the persons head while she’s snoring. It’s works,but only for a few minutes. Anything else? :3 I want to do it while she’s sleeping,instead of telling her to do something. I’ve tried telling her to sleep on her side,but she turns in her sleep … Help!

++ I don’t want those silly answers that say “Punch her” or “Murder her”.
She knows that she snores like a bear xD She just can’t help it And I just want a few old wives tales that actually work x3

• ANSWER:
  I would suggest you to record her snoring sound when she is in sleep. Then next day make her listen that sound & ask her what she feels about it. Ask her what she will do when somebody is making such sounds when you are sleeping? if she is against that snoring sound, just tell her that it is her snoring sound & you get disturbed when you are sleeping.

  If she does not believe then take a video cum audio recording of her snoring habit and show it to her. Say her that if she can not do anything about it then better to visit any ENT specialist to get cured of her problem.

  Note: Or better tell her to vacate your room & get any other new room mate(with no snoring problem).

  Good luck.

QUESTION:
Anyone have any ideas on how to stop snoring? what causes it?Does anyone that you know have this problem?
My husband is 25 yrs old and we have 3 amazing kids. He works over 80 hrs a week to support us so we can live nice. When he comes home from a hard days work he takes a shower, plays with the kids, eats, and goes to sleep and within one minute of laying down he starts snoring(and it is loud).. I have tried a couple of things from the store but nothing has worked….I don’t get sleep because it is so bad…Please help!
He is not over weight.
tried breath right strips. It has only started to occure within the past few months.. Maybe he is just working to much and doesn’t have time to get a lot of sleep?

• ANSWER:

QUESTION:
What is that snake hissing noise my bf makes while he sleeps?
Ok..this is strange and it scared me a bit..i was sleeping and woke up to my boyfriend hissing like a snake, he was asleep and the noise was coming out his mouth. the hiss’s were about at least 5sec long each one. he would do about 3 and then stop and continue snoring for a few minutes and then stop snoring…then like 10mins later he would start snoiring again and stop snoring and continue the hiss noise it was like a sssssssssssss!!! they where loud also ..so i woke him up and told him stop it! he woke up and said “watt, stop wat”" i said your hissing like a snake (took a deep breathe inorder to show him exactly how he was hissing) ssssssss!!!! ” he said “im doing that?” and i said “yes and you have kept me up for hrs!” he apologized and went back to sleep..i stayed up a few mins and didnt hear the noise again. But its was wierd and creepy! i never heard anyone do that b4 and i have googled and cant find any answers. Could the hissing be from stress?
the teeth things might be right thanks
and lol to the demin comments lol

• ANSWER:
  Sounds like a severe case of Parseltongue, contact the Ministry of Magic asap!

QUESTION:
How can I stop my dog snoring so loudly?

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(Inspired by ManOfCopper)

• ANSWER:
  Aww.
  Leave that doggy alone

  Just kidding.
  Tell him to shut the hell up, or else GTFO.
  It’s dog-speak. He’ll get it
  :]

QUESTION:
Should I see a doctor about my sleeping problems?
I’m a 16 yr old female with a high-stress life, so clearly there’s gonna be some problems sleeping.
Since a started high school (September 2007) I have not gotten restful sleep. Even in the summer time when I’m not stressed out I wake up early and can’t get back to sleep, no matter what time I went to bed (for example, if I were to go to bed at 12:00 AM tonight, i’d probably wake up around 7 AM and not be able to fall asleep, get restless in bed, and have to get up no matter how tired I feel). I’m constantly drowsy throughout the day and it is a rare occasion when I can manage to take a nap, not that they ever help increase my energy level. I rarely drink coffee or any other caffeinated drink and when i do, it’s in the morning or early afternoon. I only snore very lightly, and i never stop breathing at night. I don’t particularly have problems getting to sleep, or staying asleep, but i can never sleep for more than 9 hours if i’m lucky. Usually I sleep naturally about 7.5 hours of sleep and during the school week around 6.5-7 hours. Could i possibly have a disorder? If so, what?

After doing a lot of research i still have no answers. I’d like to not feel like a zombie anymore.

• ANSWER:
  i don’t think you have a sleep problem, more likely a stress problem … if i got as much sleep as you i would weep with happiness …. 9 hours is a lot … but you are growing and do need good quality sleep … have you tried natural sleep aids such as melatonin which is non-addictive … might be something to try

QUESTION:
A Demon For Real? This Story Is Absolutely Real!?
I moved from a house that I used to live in 2 years ago back in the summer of 2006. Sometime in the month of July, my mom started to leave the door open that led to downstairs and the basement. The reason she left the door open was because it was hot upstairs because of the hot summer weather and she wanted to get some cool air from the basement because the basement had cooler air at the time. One night my mom had slightly closed the door that led to downstairs and I rung the door bell. She let me in the house, gave me a hug. As she hugged me I looked at the small opening in the door. All of a sudden the door moved by itself as if something quickly pulled it as if it were trying to shut the door and then the door just stayed still as if something quickly let go of it. However, the door was still slightly open. So as my mom went to her room I opened the door even more and turned the light on. So I listened to hear and see if someone or something was down there and I started to hear something growling. But I walked halfway down the stairs and stopped. As I stopped I looked around to see if something or someone was down there and nothing was down there at all. After that I went back up stairs and closed the door completely and for the rest of that night nothing happened at all. Near the end of July, one morning I awoke and my mom and my brother were asleep and snoring. So I decided to check downstairs again. All the lights in the house were turned off and as I walked down the hallway toward the door that led to downstairs I saw that my mom had completely left the door open this time around. So as I looked downstairs I saw an absolutely, definite, terrifying, monstrous figure at the very end at the bottom of the stairs. It was just standing there in the dark downstairs as if it were looking at me. The monster was transparent as I looked at it downstairs in the darkness. It was so tall and huge and so creepy looking that I didn’t even want to take one step down the stairs. It had to be every bit of 6’9 or 7’0. It had unimaginable ominous abnormal claws. It looked like it had claws for hands instead of just hands and claws. Also, as I looked at the unimaginable monster it sparkled with tiny sparkling lights. So I went back to bed and left the door open like it already was. After a while, I literally heard something running up the stairs as if it were wearing equipment. I literally heard the footsteps and the sound of equipment as it ran up the stairs. But, it did not run all the way up stairs. It didn’t even run halfway up the stairs. But I knew that whatever it was…it was not of God. I felt a very, very, very, very, very, very, deep disturbing discernment in my gut about even taking one step downstairs when I looked at that unbelievable disfigured monstrous thing. Sometime at the end of July my brother went off to college and me and my mom moved to an apartment in Elizabethtown. One night in March or April of 2007 I woke up early and my mom was still asleep and it was only 2:00 or 3:00 in the morning. I felt a disturbing presence in my room. It was so disturbing that I left and slept with her. As I looked in the dark hallway I saw the exact same creature that I saw from the house that I moved from. Except this time, I could see it physically. It was faceless with no eyes, ears, nose, or mouth…this I knew. It had mud flesh that looked as if it were burned by fire and it was very tall in human form. I only saw half of its upper body as it walked toward my room. But I only saw it for 2 quick seconds and then it disappeared. The reason I knew what it looked like is because the small light in the hallway had been on. After that nothing happened for the rest of that night. I recently moved to a new house here in Elizabethtown. I still wonder to this day why that unimaginable thing has not physically attacked me. My grandma says that I’m covered by the Blood.

• ANSWER:
  The story would be acceptable as “credible” were it not for the height
  of the creature described.

  Such beings tend to inhabit or are drawn to houses on “junction points”
  of several ley lines or similar. Furthe, if the dwelling WERE on a
  junction point…the phenomenon you described would have been in
  effect for quite some time. Not any relatively recent hapenstance.

QUESTION:
What’s the worst that can happen to me if I become no longer my brother’s payee?
I receive SSI & Social Security here in the US, & I’m 25 & mentally disabled. I have a college degree & can handle my $$. This is my 1st time being someone’s payee. My 31-yr. old brother, who is more mentally impaired than I am.

My older sister was his payee, & he left from her because she always misused his $$ & gambled it up. He supposedly can’t count $$. He pretty much PUSHED himself on me & didn’t give me a chance to tell him that I won’t be able to care for him. Also, I felt VERY sick last week, & he didn’t care how I felt. He didn’t want to hear me try to tell him I can’t have others stay with me because it will make my anxiety, OCD, & Tourette’s worse, & it will mess up my lease if he stayed with me. Just like he got angry & left her, if he were on my lease, if we get into an argument, he would up & leave & not care if my credit is destroyed. It can be an argument as simple as me reminding him to wash his hands after using the bathroom. You never know when he’ll snap & leave me paying over 0/mo. that I can’t afford.

My landlord doesn’t like to make changes in the lease contracts. So, I would’ve been stuck. My brother is currently not on the lease. The lease says guests can stay 5 consecutive nights, twice out the month, & I don’t have extra to let my brother stay here longer. It was his 5th day here, so he had to leave anyway.

My ears are very sensitive because I have a condition, called hyperacusis, & I’m easily prone to ear infections.

He knows what he's doing, & he tries to pretend to be helpless, when he's not as helpless as you think, in order to get things he wants from you for free. If he knew he wanted to come here by me, he left my sister's house with over 0 & spent it all up on honey buns, donuts, & other stuff, so he can make it MY responsibility to pay his way up here. But Traveler's Aid paid for him. I almost cried when he wanted to come up here. Now, I'm broke for the rest of the month, helping him as much as I can.

He currently sneaks behind my back, telling other family members that he doesn't trust me because back in 2004, he touched my breasts & thought it was funny & then started to get violent when I got angry about it. He called himself getting revenge by lying & saying I molested my twin sister's baby, when he most likely was the one who did it. Now, I have a false bad reputation.

The people @ the SSA office said that he doesn't have to live with me for me to be his payee. I sent him to the homeless shelter, & they told him he can only stay 1 night because he has an expired ID. I had to stay @ that shelter for a few days back in 2007. The same witchy lady that threw my valuables around with a broom & lied & said I made the mess & called the police because I told her I couldn't go to church session because I was studying for a psychology exam. They put me on the streets that night.

Now, this SAME woman called me tonight to try to threaten me into letting him back in, & she has NO say so over who's his payee. I'm the only 1 who won't misuse his $$. But she tried to scare me by saying that if I don't let him stay by me, then the "consequence" is that I will no longer be his payee. I'm afraid she might do something worse to get me in more trouble. We have another brother in town who's willing to take him in, but he doesn't want to go there.

I'm not willing to ruin my lease because of my brother being confused & 2-faced, & trying to freeload. He inflicts the same pain & suffering on me as others do to him. He made threats to lie on my sister, so I'm afraid he might lie on me again.

The shelter woman tried to tell me that I'd be cruel & dirty wrong if I don't take him back in by tomorrow. It's not my fault his ID is 2 yrs. expired, & I am penniless right now. I gave him the LAST of the $$ I had. But why wasn't she cruel 2 yrs. ago for throwing me on the streets for not being able to attend church because of school? She didn't care. But now she wants me to feel bad for him. He doesn't have to be homeless. He CHOOSES not to stay with my other brother.
I forgot to mention that he always says he wants to be independent, but he expects you to do everything FOR him, step-by-step.

& he told me he refuses to seek psychiatry or any other mental health help. So, that also has me afraid.

• ANSWER:
  You receive his money, you pay his bills with the money he has. That is all you have to do. He does not have to live with you and no one can force that. Complete strangers from banks or social service agencies are people’s Payees – they don’t do anything more than pay bills.

  Stop making this into something it isn’t. Your brother has a mental illness. Rent him a place to live that he can afford. Pay the bills and give him the key. Don’t do anymore than you want to or are capable of.

  Unless you want to take him to court and find him incompetent, he is an adult able to make his own bad decisions. You pay the bills so he has a basic place to live, food in the frig, and the light and electric paid. Give him a month for spending money – that’s what he would get in a group home. If he doesn’t want to live there – that’s his choice. You spent his money on what he needed to be safe.

  Than let him be an adult.

QUESTION:
can you think of any? that would make people laugh?
[onthareal]:
onthareal

- hiii, i’m ____________
- i’m short.
- i’m italian
- I’ve been described as bold, self-involved & obnoxious – but in a charming way.
- I make awkward – often inappropriate – jokes in uncomfortable situations.
- if you’re a slob from my town, get the fuck off my page & mind yo business, SLOB.
- i hate surprises. of any kind.
- i couldn’t care less about the news.
- if possible, i would immerse los angeles in my vomit, covering its fake inhabitants.
- “i believe in karma, what you give is what you get returned.”
- i don’t smoke…but smokers are sexy as fuck.
- country music is garbage to my ears.
- never ever ask me what i “like to do for fun”, it’s impossible to answer.
- the thought of relationships makes me want to slaughter helpless puppies.
- i’ll fuck anything with a hole. but i’ll only kiss you if i like you.
- i can’t live without a cell phone. but i break mine approximately every 3 weeks.
- listening to someone snore makes me want to decapitate babies.
- children are the bane of my existence.
- i’m vindictive.
- i can parallel park an F-150 in the crack of your ass.
- when i was 14, my addictive guilty pleasure was watching undressed on MTV.
- i litter out my car window constantly. the world is my trash can.
- everything’s better naked, wet, & twice.
- i wish my eyes weren’t shit brown.
- everyone looks better with a tan.
- who, what, where & when i fuck has got nothing to do with you.
- i have no direction in life & i’m not ashamed to admit it.
- people obsessed with their sidekicks are losers.
- i loved the ’70s, ’80s & ’90s way before vh1 did.
- i don’t work from july->september as employment interferes with my summer activities.
- i have absolutely no patience. whatsoever.
- i’d love to choke both miley cyrus & selena gomez.
- i respond very well to peer pressure.
- i mumble, almost constantly.
- i am jealous of people who have better things than me.
- i have an issue with change.
- my nipples are large.
- boxers or briefs? – boxerbriefs.
- stop jogging outdoors. it’s not 1967, buy a treadmill.
- it doesn’t bother me that steve irwin or bernie mac are dead.
- sometimes i’m sarcastic.
- gotta love people who buy expensive cameras & call themselves photographers.
- i’d love to punch bob saget in the mouth.
- if you’re gonna drive slow, GET THE FUCK OUTTA THE FAST LANE.
- girls that say “&&”, “♥” or “i’m so random” aren’t cute.
- i cross my 7′s.
- i once met tommy lee.

that is all.
___________________________________________________________

i’ve probably been in your mouth.

[enjoy]:
enjoy

- sleeping for long periods of time.
- sarcastic people.
- the word CUNT.
- heartbreaks.
- baby cow meat.
- fake girls with tans & hair extensions. they’re always much hotter than regular girls.
- architecture.
- encountering kids from my town who peaked in high school. sweet hair lines & beer guts.
- lips.
- attention. lots of attention. at all times.
- redbull.
- puma.
- talkin’ reckless.
- iced tea.
- tim burton.
- texting while driving.
- the giving tree.
- burnt toast.
- hot jersey summers.
- 5.0 mustangs.
- eating.
- the smell of skunk.
- pomegranate products.
- terrible MTV 10-spot shows from the 1999-2001 era such as 2gether & spyder games.
- trailer park trash.
- super nintendo.
- 2007′s collaboration of timbaland, justin timberlake & nelly furtado.
- dunkaroos.
- TGIF’s amazing ’90s sitcom lineup.
- trucker hats.
- starbucks.
- jeep wranglers.
- cinnamon applesauce.
- sex.
- proving people wrong.
- vanilla ice.
- apple products.
- the olive garden.
- all aspects of the beach & surfing.
___________________________________________________________

[despise]:
despise

- NJ housewife caroline manzo. meddling cunt.
- basketball.
- cheese.
- children.
- low-life ex’s.
- relationships.
- cops that live to ruin peoples lives…die.
- christmas music.
- hair on the soap.
- celebrity bloggers…get a life, a-holes.
- self-proclaimed models.
- pale people who think that “fake n’ bake” is a stereotype. you may want to reconsider.
- that stupid “DIRTY JERZEY” cliché. relax kids, it’s not even dirty.
- amanda bynes.
- anything blink 182 ever sang. including any tom delonge side-project.
- hollister & the tool bags that work there.
- people obsessed with their religion. take a deep breath freaks.
- state police. WOW, take time off your power trip & go find a soul, motherfuckers.
- napoleon dynamite.
- people who tour europe for months because they think they’re so “cultured”.
- vegetarians. eat meat you fuckers.
- mariah carey. old bitch.
- 20 year olds that kiss mom & dad’s ass. time to cut the umbilical cord.
- carlos mencia – not funny.
- anyone who has pride in their school…THA FUCK??
- melted ice cream.
- virgins. especially over the age of 18. that’s just weird…
- yellow teeth. there are a million whitening

• ANSWER:
  there is no way i am reading that!

QUESTION:
can anyone give me some good avice about my girlfriend?
ok my girlfriend nakeitha aka my sexy black babe….and im white by the way. we want to have kids..but i already have 5 little girls. im also rich and insane. so nakeitha has bad gas after dinner and she snores like a warthog like should i hit her when she makes noise or should i get her the surgery. im so confused. anyways were off to popeyes for dinner, were finally allowed back, last time we got kicked for “lewed behavior”. there is nothing wrong with showing intimacy in the washroom. like its 2010 people stop being so sexually repressed

• ANSWER:
  trolls are tasty in milk-

QUESTION:
Unconciously teeth clenching guy that won’t get help I’m dating is cramping my style?
I’m striving for the best advice that I can get here..

I have been dating a guy who I starting sleeping with, but he clenches his teeth unconsciously when he sleeps.

It is annoying, and I’m losing sleep.

Ever since back in April-May 2009 he complained that his dentist drilled too deep and it hit a nerve.

And he spent 00 getting his wisdom teeth pulled, 0 for a splint that was plastic made clenching his teeth worse, and online for a device that is suppose to stop snoring and also the clenching now just like he did with the plastic splint.

I am going out of my mind losing sleep and I have fussed a couple of times like why didn’t he just get a hold of his dentist for starting this mess in the first place. It’s been 1 year, and 6 months now of this teeth clenching still going on…

I have had talks asking if he is passive he says he says he is not and that he told his dentist off, but his dentist told him he can’t help him.

He told me he had several metal fillings, and I told him about mercury poisoning.

His dentist told him not to get his wisdom teeth pulled, but he did it anyway by another dentist..

His dentist said he can’t take the metal fillings out only if they are touching they cause problems.

I’m scared he is going to break those metal fillings, and suffer from mercury poisoning.

He has a real heavy clench it’s so bad he has made marks on both of his mouth guards.

This guy is on his moms insurance, and he keeps saying that he doesn’t have the money.
His mom insurance last until he is out of college.

His parents have had money they have supported his brother all through football so I don’t see why he wouldn’t ask for help. They have helped him before.

Real soon he won’t have his moms insurance to see a dentist. This guy works in a grocery store and makes 0 a week..
Most of his income he contributes from his paycheck from work because he and I are living together he contributes to the bills, and food.
He also has to pay for his lab fees at college.

It seems like he is putting this off more, and the excuse is he has to work save up his check so more time for him to keep putting this off.

We have taken a vacation back in August what a vacation with a guy who clenches so much you can’t stand to stay in the same hotel room, and it seemed like it was the excuse to spend the money he could have gotten help with…

All kinds of excuses are being made maybe it’s the bed with metal springs, maybe its college, maybe its work, and maybe it’s just stress.
Next you know it could be a cow on the moon as an excuse.
Maybe he needs vitamins.
NO this guy needs serious help.
He clenches unconsciously every single night, and even when he takes naps in the day time.

He sits depressed looking at me, and wonders why I’m sleeping away from him in the living room , but then there are more things keeping me awake ,and I am getting insomnia.
I am woken up every morning with him going off the college.

I have no idea what to do, but I’m getting ready to call it quits just maybe that might get him to stop wasting time putting things off , but I guess another excuse might come up like my dog or a floor board might be loose on the floor.

I have even tried sleeping in another room, and I still can’t get to sleep.
I have walked by my room that I have given up and he is clenching for hours constantly unconsciously.

I have thrown fits to nearly breaking up with him, but he cries and tells me he loves me.

Now I have gone as far as I can take it, and now I am getting even more frustrated and cranky from no sleep.

And I feel like my style, and my health is being cramped.

What do I do?
I don’t know if I should break up because I have given up everything.
I can’t even leave home and do what I normally do because I’m drained from no sleep.
I don’t want to keep going in circles and suffering likes this anymore.
I have talked to my parents and they keep saying well he loves you, and he isn’t like any other guy, but wait a minute I’m suffering here so I should just hang onto him because everyone thinks he really loves me ,and isn’t like any other guy yet I’m suffering from what he does at night and even sleeping in another room doesn’t do any good.

I feel like I’m staying with this guy because I am being made to feel sorry out of pity.
Like some kind of guilt trip.
I have given up my room and my home for him to live with me to also finish college.
Am I a bad girlfriend because I want my sleep back?

I am in such heartache and grief because I don’t want to seem like a bad person for standing up that I need my sleep, and that we are going to have to separate.

Please help me.. Help me please..

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QUESTION:
Teeth clenching guy I’m dating is cramping my style?
I have been dating a guy who I starting sleeping with , but he clenches his teeth.It is annoying ,and I’m loosing sleep.
Ever since back in April-May 2009 he complained that his dentist drilled too deep and it hit a nerve.
And he spent 00 getting his wisdom teeth pulled, 0 for a splint that was plastic made clenching his teeth worse, and online for a device that is suppose to stop snoring and also the clenching now he is bitting it just like he did with the plastic splint. I am going out of my mind loosing sleep, and I have fussed a couple of times like why didn’t he just get a hold of his dentist for starting this mess in the first place. Its been 1 year , and 5 months of this going on…

I have even tried sleeping in another room ,and I still can’t get to sleep.
I have thrown fits to nearly breaking up with him , but he cries and tells me he loves me.

Now I have gone as far as I can take it ,and now I am getting even more frustrated ,and cranky from no sleep.

And I feel like my style , and my health is being cramped.

What do I do?

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  Show him this question. He will then take it more seriously because he will realize how much it is affecting you.

  I wouldn’t leave him, thankfully you don’t suggest that. I would make an appointment yourself and get him to come with you. In reality it isn’t actually him who loses the sleep and doesn’t function the best you can, it’s you. And if he claims it isn’t his fault, then it is because he is the one putting it off not going to the dentist. He probably doesn’t want to admit he is causing a problem with you.

  So get an appointment and tell him he needs to get it sorted as it is causing problems with you and him. Tell him its not just you who suffers from this, if he got with any other woman, they wouldn’t put up with this lack of sleep for this long. He is lucky you haven’t gone crazy with not having much sleep. It would have driven me crazy, so well done for staying with him this long!

  Get his a.s.s to the dentist!

QUESTION:
I was assaulted by my neighbor?
It started out on Nov 13, 2009 at between the hours of 6:00 & 7:00PM when my brother and me came back from grocery shopping, when we found a car blocking our driveway to the garage of our apartment building. We had this problem before with other neighbors that lived down the street from us, but I was getting fed up with this abuse I honked my horn & yelled for 3 for minutes for the person to move their car but nobody responded. We looked at the apartment upstairs from us after we honked our horn yelled to move their car but no response.

I decided to call the police because the car was blocking access to have the car towed, but was unaware that it belonged to the upstairs neighbor’s visitors, unfortunately at the time we were not aware that it belonged the upstairs neighbor’s daughter.
(Before I continue about my neighbors, they are older eccentric hippy type of couple who rubbed us the wrong ever since my brother & me first moved into our apartment, especially the wife who complains at the slight hint of noise and actually insulted my father when he came to visit us to help us with the move that he snores to loudly (my father has sleep apnea by the way) and since then have been trouble for the first few months, we even voiced our concerns with the landlord about this and she said it was alright & there is no clause in the lease the forbids snoring & told us not to worry about this. When my family came to visit us again the stupid lady was complaining that my father’s snoring had been keeping her up all night and my brother who was fed up with the eccentric neighbor’s ranting got up in her face & told “IS IT A PROBLEM THAT MY DAD HAS SLEEP APNEA?!” and the lady thinking that we could be bullied realized that we were not pushovers backed down and for the next 2 years it created a situation where we minded our business & the minded theirs and interact with them as little as possible & every time we came home they would run upstairs to their apartment in which they tried to create inconveniences such parking her car in the garage and blocking access to the apartment hallway until we called her up on it. We avoid each other & minded our business until now!
Back to the present, after we honked our car horn and called the police to tow the car 20 minutes after the car was towed we get a knock on the door and it is the upstairs neighbor the dude who before then were cordial somewhat friendly until Friday night came into our apartment stinking drunk insulting us & getting physical by pushing around in which his wife, 2 daughters, & another guy who was probably the husband of one of the girls came down to stop him. There was pushing it almost came to the point of altercation in which thanks to my brother and the daughter’s cooler heads prevailed in which they apologized for blocking the driveway and explained that their father gets this way whenever he is drunk. We told we apologize that we didn’t know that was their car and were willing to help get the car out and straighten out this misunderstanding, but we were not going to let this assault on us slide. In which during the time we were negotiating with each other in which the drunk neighbor was slamming and pounding on the floor, now after this both my brother don’t feel safe and called the landlord to explain the situation, but it looks like they are out of town and we even went as far to go to their place to talk to them in person but still they were not home. We would have called the police, but for the daughter’s sake we didn’t we had hoped he would have come and apologized in person, but it looks like he hasn’t made the attempt and now I am thinking about reporting this incident to the police since the landlord is out of town what should I do?

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